Kids always think it is their fault their parents are seperating. Keep repeating it over and over.
I have heard that time and time again. Here is a question, when having the talk with the kids - and one parent wants to end the M and the other wants to keep/save it - is it right to tell the kids its a mutual thing? I mean, if it comes to that, I won't do that...I will be there (and tell the truth), of course, but it will up to her to tell them that its her idea. I won't ever lie to my children, period. After all, she is the one who left the marriage and I am not about to agree to that - sort of she made the bed, now she has to lie in it. I firmly believe that divorce isn't the answer.
Is my way wrong?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
