But we are starting to officially go through the divorce process. In her eyes the marriage is already ending and we are no longer in a relationship.

Is there anything I can do to create a boundary in this situation? I don't have much leverage now.

Me-29 W-29
M 5 years (2010)
Kids S-6 S-5
W Ring Off: 9/28/15
Filed: 10/12/15