Back on these forums again

[Mona52]

Thanks Judy! I have no idea. I asked her and she said she did not see H's car so she did not stop. I told her his car was right out front of the house. She said she did not see his car so she did not walk down to the house.

However, I do not think she is being 100% truthful. I have been trying to get the kids to ask him for stuff instead of just me, but they wont. Every resource I have read said not to force the kids to communicate with the parent who left. I make it as easy as humanly possible for them to speak to him, and I encourage it daily. I make it equally as easy for him to access them, but I never ask him to, and I will never ask him again. That is all I can do.

DONT ADOPT... BORROW MINE!

(((Gmum))) I read your thread, you get alot done in a day as well