Starsky always had something good to say on late night returns. He hasn't posted all that recently - but his advice was to batten down the house for the night at a certain time. He locked everything up and set the security system, then went off to bed. I think he (prior to that) had a convo with his W about how disrespectful the late nights were to him and also to the family.

I know he said the measures did stop the late arrivals home. I don't think he actually locked her out, but there was a clear message that the house was all closed up for the night and she had to 'open it all up' in order to get back in.

I'm hoping that he, or someone who can recall better than me may stop by and clarify further.

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus