Thanks Huddy - I need the reassurance yr posts bring.
Sometimes just getting stuff down on the Forum helps ease the anxiety.
Need a chill pill I will keep exercising, bike rides and running and a few weights. For GAL, I was out Wednesday in London and tonight with lads from cycling club for beer and curry. Next week I am working away Mon Pm to Wed PM. The work will involve colleagues who I dont see often so that will be good.
For sure I feel better about myself than 4 years ago. I have Got a Life, physically fit and I really learnt to support W. She had a lot of trouble at work with junior staff - extending over the full 4 years and I listened, and listened and validated and knew not to intefer or try to fix the problems. I thought she counted on me as a rock of support. NB her work problems faded earlier this year.
So I will only see W on Sunday afternoon/evening and then Wed Evening. It gives her space and time.
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I will keep exercising, bike rides and running and a few weights.
