Back on these forums again

[Mona52]

So Tuesday is so far away. I am fantasizing how much better certain activities will be after the doctor. I even hinted to my D that

A. I have a problem (she has no idea, no one does) and

B. I am going to talk to a doctor on Tuesday. I told her because I dont want to back out, now I have someone to hold me slightly accountable. I do not want to look weak in my D's eyes, right?? But chances of me backing out are so low because I am so excited for my life after
I would rather walk down the street naked then go to the doctor, but AFTER OMG it will be wonderful.

Just thinking of it has boosted my confidence. So much so that I sent a text to my H this morn.

Ok, you all need to relax... it had nothing to do with the R...

"I need $350.00 for bills this week. Can you give me $350.00?"

I am 99% sure he will give me zero. and 1% sure if he forks over any cash it will be less than $100.00. So In the end I am going to have to go to my mother and beg for money this weekend. Oh well. It is not the worst thing in the world, but I still hate it.

Does anyone here know how long it takes to ever get child support? I files 8/16/15. We had our hearing 9/11/15. H started new job 9/14/15. Order to with hold from his paycheck was received by his employer 9/25/15.

So how much longer will I have to wait?

I remember last time it took me 8 months to get any money from him, but that was 15 years ago and I cannot remember how long it took me to file for support to begin with.