**BUMP**

I need some help navigating my current situation with my W. I have been reading... and finally understand some of what drove my wife away.

I want to set some boundaries and get my integrity back, but I am struggling with how to do that now. My wife and I are just starting the divorce process and I don't want to quit yet. However, she is going out every other night until around 1am or 2am. I am sure she is seeing the OM and I want to set some reasonable boundaries to avoid the disrespect she is showing.

Throughout our entire M I have always been the nice guy and consistently gave into what she wanted. I was always the "yes man" and want my confidence and self respect back. I know this is an important part of the process in potentially having your W start to develop feelings for you again.

How do I set boundaries when I really have no ground left to stand on? We have 2 children and need help navigating this part.

Last edited by Cristy; 11/10/15 09:58 PM. Reason: per forum agreement, do not mention other books or authors
Me-29 W-29
M 5 years (2010)
Kids S-6 S-5
W Ring Off: 9/28/15
Filed: 10/12/15