I did not mean to upset you. I just wanted you to see a few things from this old former WW's point of view. I understand how you would feel that you are doing everything you know to do. And, that is why I pointed out several things.
You didn't, Sandi. I value your answers because you tell me the unvarnished truth. I need that. Thank you. I will continue to have questions if that is ok with you.
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Anyway, I think you could fine tune some of the things you are currently doing. For example, contacting W only when necessary. What constitutes necessary. I know most everyone says "the kids", but what about them? Why do you have to contact her that it could not wait till everyone is home? Discuss it in the evenings or before leaving for work.
I agree. lately I haven't been contacting her at all during the day. I know I used every excuse to text. But, I have been keeping a journal - every time I get the urge to text, I would right what I wanted to say instead of actually texting her. I find that to work very well for me. And who knows, maybe if we reconcile it would make a nice gift.
Thank you and please keep setting me straight on this rocky road!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
