I guess I am still a long way from being detached enough not to be knocked windless when he does marry the OW. I read in one of the threads that one way of detaching is to ask yourself if you would be interested in getting to know the X if you were both strangers now.

Honestly, the answer would be no.

So I guess, now all the DB techniques that I have learnt will be put to use into maintaining a cordial and civil relationship as a co-parent. Because we owe kid that much.


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.