Originally Posted By: Gmum
Thank you both. I'm really trying.

We're spending Sunday together before he leaves. We'll take our D to her soccer class, carve a pumpkin and then watch a movie with her.

Some weeks ago I started to keep a Worry list. I looked at it the other day and realized I had figured a few of things on it out. Felt good. Quickly added more points to my DB Goal list, haha. I also make sure to write even minuscule things on my Grateful list. You're all on my Grateful list.

The lists idea is a great one.

You are going from strength to strength Gmum, it's so envigorating and inspiring to watch.

What I sense we are seeing is the real Gmum coming through, the one that first arrived on this forum is long gone and may get revisited occasionally, but not for long as the real Gmum will take over again.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?