mutatio, that was odd and as the others have said, you are mind reading it may not be for the reason you think, so it's best to stop thinking about it because you'll never get an answer.

Apply Sandi2's rule, don't believe (or take personally) 100% of way she says and 50% of what she does...I added the bit in brackets which is bold given its such a boiler plate standard rule but I fully believe it applies.

When was the last time you looked at your goals and is your plan in good shape? If not, is now the time to review them?

I am finding the phrase "consult your plan not your feelings" as really powerful at the moment, give it a try.


- Nobody has ever learnt anything important from happiness and success; problems make us grow
- Consult your plan, not your feelings
- If you haven't set goals, how can you expect to achieve anything?