Where to begin? Part 2

[Huddy]

Don't mix DB with anything else. When I first got BD, I read a lot of stuff online. Some of it was contradictory. I tried nice. All that got me was a kick in the balls, so give that a miss. In the end, I read sandi2's initial posts, before I joined the forum, read a couple of other sitch's, and found that actually, I wasn't the only man on the planet that this has happened to and that most of the stuff on cadet's homework, fitted my W to a tee.

I tried a MC session with my W. It was a disaster as she thought they were all against her and for me. 'Fawning' is how she put it. So, don't go there until she has made a commitment to be part of your M.

I don't contact my W during the day. I don't think either of us actually wants this, but, you've got to think 'why would I want to contact somebody who doesn't want to be with me?'. That's when it clicks in to place.

Keep at it.