Sadly, the crumb throwing will continue until you put your foot down and say 'enough'. That's when your W will start taking you seriously.
The ring thing is for effect. I took mine off, not because I didn't love her etc., because I didn't want to be associated with all the abuse that was coming out of her mouth. The lying, changing our marriage memories in to something they weren't, the constant spewing etc. I suppose I was making a point as well. In the end, she didn't notice at the time as she was so far in to the fog.
Less worrying about your W and more concentrating on yourself.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015