Sadly, the crumb throwing will continue until you put your foot down and say 'enough'. That's when your W will start taking you seriously.

The ring thing is for effect. I took mine off, not because I didn't love her etc., because I didn't want to be associated with all the abuse that was coming out of her mouth. The lying, changing our marriage memories in to something they weren't, the constant spewing etc. I suppose I was making a point as well. In the end, she didn't notice at the time as she was so far in to the fog.

Less worrying about your W and more concentrating on yourself.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015