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[dday]

Mutatio, I think you actually stated that well, and anyone else in the world would not have taken any offense. When my W is in a negative mood towards me, anything and everything is wrong.
I once told W that I felt like if I handed her a chocolate bar, she would be mad that it had nuts. Or if it didnt, she would be mad that it didn't. She responded "no, I'd be mad that you gave me a chocolate bar." Meaning, whatever you do is wrong.

I hope for you, and all of us here, that it will pass and things improve for you soon!