Becoming the Anchor, Part 2

[dday]

I agree. They do not think things through at all. Don't make the mistake I did a couple nights ago. You (I) shouldn't be the one to try to point out the flaws in their plan. Just makes them dig in more, I fear. There was a lot of truth in what I said, but my emotions got in there too.

Ancaire, I envy that you can "step away" during your conversations. I wish I could do that, I get emotional and feelings come out.

You giving the space they ask for is NOT what caused their A. If they are going to do it, you can't stop it. That is a problem inside them. I know people who treat their spouses like crap, yet stay together and stay true to each other.