My son had his 4th car accident in the past 12 months today. This one wasn't his fault, although a prudent driver (including me) could have avoided it. Poor driving is another ADHD trait.

I think I'm going to stop him from driving for a while and have him take some defensive driving lessons.

I'd also like to put my wife on an iceberg or on a spaceship to deep space. Sorry folks, but I'm not going to give up the anger when all this was simply dumped on me. She's retried now at age 53; because of state laws that don't take into account educational expenses, I'll get cleaned out and never get to retire.