No, my friend, you cannot worry about every word you speak. There was NOTHING WRONG with anything you said to begin with. This is all about her.
Has she always been something of a prima-donna, or is this new since her A?
I'm sorry if I sound annoyed. I guess because I am, a little. Here you are, one of the kindest, most patient gentlemen on earth, and your W is rude or dismissive. As a fellow LBS, I take umbrage at her treatment of you.
Forgive me, please. I seem to be annoyed with every WS in the world right now. LOL