I hope it helps your marriage evolve to it greatest potential. At the least you should have a good idea of where he stands in relation to you and the marriage.
I wish I had profound wisdom to impart to you. Sorry, all I have my mantra of patience, kindness, compassion and understanding. That's all you need for a marriage or for raising children. Actually that's all you need in life. I wish I believed that in my heart 20 years ago like I do now.
Thank you for your support, you have be very kind to me and I greatly appreciate your thoughts. I have a good feeling about your situation even though it will not be easy.