But you always seem to qualify it with "unless I can't". How often does that happen? Is it infrequent enough to just get rid of that all together and say that Wednesday afternoon is your time, period? Or does it happen often enough to say that it's H's time, period. If he's truly encroaching on your time, then that must stop. But I get a sense of ambiguity, maybe that's what H is reacting to? Think this through before you lay down the law to him.
