yes we only have problems on Wednesdays and it is so frustrating. I think because it is a double day. Meaning we each have him but it is his overnight. He does not take me into consideration and always makes decisions without including me. This is exactly what happened in our marriage too. Even life altering decisions, he would come to me with his decision, before I even knew there was something that needed deciding, and I was meant to go along with whatever he wanted. I do not want to do that anymore. I have a say now. He is fully aware that I get him for 2 hours on Wednesdays, it has been that way since May and we even noted it in the parenting meetings that day would stay the same.

I meant "unless I can't" then it would be up to him to find alternate care. meaning his mother but not while it was my time to see our son.

Last edited by ep0215; 10/16/15 01:13 AM.

Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15