Do I seem like I am on the losing end? After reading what Sandi wrote, I am having serious doubts about things. I just don't know what to do anymore. I have detached to the best of my ability and our separation is kind of odd given that we live together until she goes to her new base. I don't text, email, or contact unless necessary.
Evil_E, we are dealing with something similar here. H is getting orders in three months. H has his own apartment, but is here a lot working on the house to get it ready to sell when he leaves for his next duty station. S17 is graduating from high school this year, so we are sticking it out here until then, but will probably return to my hometown afterwards. It makes for a very awkward situation though because H comes and goes like he lives here. We can't get enough space between us to make him miss us, but we don't get any quality time together to make him want to stay either.
