In CHL's case I am ASSuming based on something he told me that the fact that he took his ring off early last year meant a great deal. Even though at the time he had lost a lot of weight and the ring did not fit well, when he gained some of the weight back he never put the ring back on.
When I started getting to know him and going for computer lessons I did not wear my wedding rings as I had gained too much weight to wear them and my H had lost his long ago so as far as I know it wasn't a big deal to either one of us.
But CHL told me that was one of the first things that he noticed was that I wasn't wearing my wedding rings.
So I think it probably means something different to each of us.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
