Here's my .02 on the ring thing... my H wore one. Until he had a construction accident and he had to cut it off and pry it apart in the ER. Why, cause the doctor was too weak!! 38 stitches later, we left with a very deformed ring. I replaced it, bu he only wore that occasionally.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
