Hi OhGreat, typically she plans the parties which really are about the kids. We don't throw many just a handful throughout the year.
I started a small 180 recently to break a pattern. At night after kids go to bed we typically sit on the coach (on opposite ends) watching TV. However, she is always on her phone (playing games, FaceBook, texting). I take the dog out for his nightly walk. My 180, I occasionally stay out longer than expected. She definitely notices because she makes comments and/or ask questions when I return (but like Sandi said, why should I offer her my time when she is with OM). I use the time to be on this board.
