Hi dwh, I appreciate the comments. Sorry, still learning how to post but I do know how to copy/paste.
"He didn't even seem like her type and I had no fear that she was capable of having an A". Likewise. My W was very deceiving about A. She made comments about OM's appearance in front of kids to throw us off (kids would laugh at her comments).
"No M is affair-proof". Yes, we learned this the hard-way.
"An abortion is a very traumatizing". Yes, men will never feel what women feel, again we learned this the hard-way.
"Mine actually said she wasn't currently cheating on me because our M had been over for years, and she "emotionally divorced" me a long time ago." My W shared the same message and more recently made a twisted comment to defend her action; is it an A if the MR does not exist?
