He needs to wake himself up, O. He needs to be self-motivated to realizing what he's going to lose, and fighting to keep it.
No argument with, "this is hard." I never, ever thought this would happen. Apparently it needed to. I've grown up way more than I thought I needed. I feel old...
Miss my old H, and understand where you're coming from. That's why we LBS need to stick together! Here for you, as always.
