Yeah, I guess it is a bad idea. There are times when I want to tell her things like that, but I know how much of a bad idea that can be.
It has been a while, but in the worst of it my W has said that if we don't work out then she wants to be the best of friends. That is something I wholeheartedly disagree with. If she files, I have no intention of being her friend, buddy, pal, whatever. To me, we either will be married or just acquaintances. If she brings that up again, do I tell her that? Or just wait?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
