Hi, Painter! Just read through this thread. We have a couple of things in common; an H who says he's staying because D will cost too much (mine uses the word blackmail,) an A (his) to forgive, and an H who seems not 100% committed to making repairs.

I question my sanity all the time. Why am I putting up with this? Our children #1, my personal belief that I'm married whether a court agrees or not, ...I'm pretty sure I love him, but his behavior makes me wonder why.

Reading through your thread helped a lot! I'll be keeping up from now on.

Have a great day!


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti