I will give you an example of how this intel will help moving forward.
what my wife was getting from her friend. attention during the day. I've seen him in action and he is a texter / messager all the time. Facebook, IM, texting. he is constantly at it. clearly one of his needs is communication....guess what evidently that was something that I was not giving to my wife.
simple right, well not right now it isn't. I can't just start texting her and messaging her all day long now can I. I can start to increase my frequency a little sure, but she has to WANT to talk to me first, and right this very moment in our relationship, she is not all high on the idea (or so it would seem) as I am.
What it does, is gives me a better insight as to why she would have crossed the lines of reasonable to inappropriate. Does that make sense?
