LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (2)

[dwh15]

gnicks, you are still seriously attached to your WW and her emotional train ride. You need to get off the train and quickly. You are only hurting yourself and slowing your healing.

Remember, this is the woman who recently practically accused you of domestic abuse to get you out of the house. She is not thinking straight and is going to be all over the map. You cannot trust her judgement or her motives. She is looking out for herself. Do not fall for her manipulation. The tears, breakdowns, and confessions are all part of the wayward script. She might really be feeling those things temporarily, or it might just be a superb acting performance. And it's almost guaranteed that she's going to be feeling something totally different in a short time.

Please try to focus on you and your beautiful daughter, who needs to have at least one stable parent - that is your job now, because your W is NOT thinking rationally. Regarding being friends with your W, I think it would be impossible at this time. I never say never, and maybe that would be an option way down the road, but don't even consider it right now. You communicate to her that friendship is not an option, and if she feels the same, good. A WS often plays the friendship card in an attempt to relieve their own guilt, and us poor LBS eagerly grab up every little morsel of attention. All it does it keep you attached and gives the WS plenty of cake.

Have you spoken to an attorney yet? I'm worried that you are not taking your W's recent actions serious enough and are going to be blindsided, and potentially jailed from some crazy accusation she creates out of thin air. Please take precautions and try to minimize time around your W. She cannot be trusted. Hang in there, you are going to make it through this.