WAS's get a high from doing this stuff. They see getting a new place as exciting and it's going to fix all their problems. My ex-wife bought a house when she was in the process of leaving me. She looked and acted like she won the lottery. Took her six months of being alone before she was begging me to take her back. By then it was too late. I had completely detached and wasn't looking at her through my rose tinted glasses anymore.

The high doesn't last. When she finds herself sitting in her new place and it's quiet and all her friends are busy with their families, that's when it will hit her.

You'll get there. Baby steps, my friend.