Let me ask a difficult question, now that you know who om is, what is it you think your wife like about him? What is she attracted to? If you want to salvage or walk is up to you, but if you want to continue to try, this is good intel.
I fail to see how that can be valuable intel, sir. I would be willing to bet that his W was feeling lonely, etc. (like all WW who make excuses for their actions) and this guy (for lack of better, more derogatory word) came along and preyed upon her. Probably told her things that made her feel good about herself. Its not so much as what was in him as to what he said. I would also imagine that over time his telling her the things she wanted to hear softened her approach to an A (unless she is a serial cheater, and then that is a whole different cat). Also, I would be willing to bet that the guy looks nothing like him - in fact, probably almost opposite. Am I close?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
