OG - no we both made the financial decisions.

She made all the social ones wrt her own social life and the kids - she was always the one to sort out child care etc.

Complaint: I didnt make enough effort to create nights for the two of us. (Except last Feb when I organised a weekend away for Valentines. Comedy night, evening meal and hotel stay. It was very good at least from my perspective.)

As regards my social life without her - well of course I sorted that out myself.

I will probably play it by ear - check her mood. I will be mentioning the weekends away with the boys - which might surprise her a little.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16