You're overthinking it, that means you are still very much attached. That will only make you crazy trying to decipher the "clues" and what she might or might not be doing.

She's in the fog right now. Everything about her will change. I've seen several instances where a WAS will start smoking or drinking, have affairs etc, and they were never like that in the past.

Take all that energy that you use to try and decipher her and put it right back on you. What can you do to be a better gnicks?