Sandi2 - Im a little confused as I dont think I have a WW.

Of course I dont know what she truly thinks but from the R conversations we have had:

1. Things haven't always been bad (over last 4 years)
2. I have a lot of special qualities
3. She never wants to hurt me
4. ILYBINILWY
5. BUT
6. She wants to be happy and is tired of putting others happiness first (me and Sons)
7. She has tried everything to improve M
8. She has tried counselling (7 years ago when she post natal depression)
9. The sex issues (boring and never initiated by me)
10. Probably a whole lot more but she has never told me
11. As far as W is concerned M is over.
12 She wants amicable separation and divorce
13.she has even wistfully mentioned me living in the same street in another house!

So my reasoning so far is:

Improve R with my sons
Address any other complaints from W that I can think of.
Be more confident as a Man
Be more assertive
Distance myself from W - No pursuing at all
GAL more
Arrange breaks away with kids and no W

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/15/15 12:21 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16