She Wants Me to Leave....3rd Time in 4 Years

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Decided to act more like a Man and get a grip on my life.

S11's hip is ok this morning so he is off to school today.

Trying not to ring W about S11 ...just a few texts.

Last week she asked me about an opportunity for S11 to go on a trip to Switzerland in Feb 2016 - cost £700-£900. She was concerned about cost and whether S8 would be upset b/c he wouldnt be able to go. I left decision up to her - this is typical of me during M - she makes decisions on kids

Today I texted her to say that after consideration we couldnt afford it. She texted 'i think we should talk instead of texting' I said we can talk tonight.

I think she needs a reality check - we cant afford it in this sitch and I want to spend my money on holiday WITH the boys.

Ive also booked a weekend away with the Boys in Liverpool in early Nov and a weekend in London in Dec - weekends in London were always our special times together especially in Dec around W's birthday.

I will not be making her any more cups of tea in the evening and not cosying up to watch TV together. I will make myself busy or go to bed.

I need to be careful and not be cold and distant as this will be seen as passive aggressive behaviour - as old trait of mine.

Im also trying to arrange a night out at a comedy club with some pals and a trip to a local castle for Halloween with the Boys.