Feeling a little rough this morning. Our sitch is so low contact that contact from H rattles me a bit. Didn't sleep that well and I feel tired and a bit cronky this morning. I'd like to be able to deal better with contact from him. I manage to respond rather than react to him, but I spin a little and it does impact on me. For example, yesterday I spun a little and emailed the L to ask if we are ready to talk settlement and maybe it's time for me to drop the business accounts thing.

Then later I had to email her again to say I haven't dropped the business accounts & I have reminded H we need them. Every email I send, they charge me �11, so I guess it isn't the end of the world that I sent one and then changed it. But I would like to handle it more calmly next time. Note to self - always just post on the forum and receive replies before I start actually doing anything like contacting L.

On a positive note, it's a non-working day for me and I'm having lunch out with my daft friend who is very light hearted. Then tonight, I'm going on a ghost tour, followed by drinks out with my social group. Tomorrow I'm at the book store.

Take care all and thanks for the feedback xx

Last edited by Sotto; 10/15/15 06:56 AM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus