Up and at em

[beckyb]

My husband has stated clearly that our marriage is over. They want to get married. Still I'm glad he moved out. I could live with it. The only thing I guess I can hold on too is, even though he filed he isn't moving quickly. It's still all so unbelievable.

[Jpeg]

Judy. I am sooooooo looking forward to that day when he wakes up but I am painfully aware that may not happen. And yes that is still painful for me

[Jpeg]

Just watched the Ester Perel Ted talk on infidelity. Wow!!! I REALLY Want to send the link to my husband. "An affair in the digital age is a death by 1000 cuts". I have seen so many tests and emails from OW to my H. That statement hits the nail right on the head.

So what does anybody think? Should I send it to H?

[Jpeg]

Becky has long has he been involved with his OW?

[beckyb]

Not exactly sure. They knew each other a long time ago but she live several states away when they apparently reconnect on FB. They started talking/texting in Mid May but I don't know how long they were communicating before that. PA started in June. Believe she moved back here in August. It's all happened very fast.

[Jpeg]

Hard to believe that he wants to marry her after only a few months. What goes on in their heads????

[beckyb]

Hard to believe that he wants to marry her after only a few months. What goes on in their heads????

It may be longer. IDK. She was a serious illness so I think he feels heroic.

[Jpeg]

Boy do I wish we could all get together for coffee (or wine!) and talk

[Ancaire]

I would love that so much! To be able to give all my DB friends a real hug. I've gotten such support and great advice here. I pray for all of you. You have no idea how much you've come to mean to me.

Jpeg - I told Becky if OW is dying, she's in a great place...all she has to do is wait it out! Her H has clearly lost his mind, too. "I'll leave my devoted, faithful wife, so I can be a hero." Yeah. That makes all kinds of sense.

(((Hugs)))

[beckyb]

He has lost his mind!