KGirl - letting the past go

[TDball]

KGirl, I hope this doesn't come across as creepy (it probably will anyway!) but after I read your update I started reading through your old threads. Your most recent update is pretty inspiring, and where you are now is where I hope to be in a year from now, so I wanted to see what kind of struggles you went through (to see if there was any hope for me!).

It is so obvious, even from your first posts, that you had so much going for you. I'm about halfway through, and I keep thinking "Really? She still wants to work on her marriage? She wants that guy back?" I feel that way about myself sometimes-when I go through all of the objective information, it makes no sense that I would want to reconcile with my H. Looking at my situation objectively, this D, and my H leaving, will probably be a blessing in disguise. I don't know if you feel that way about your own situation yet, but reading your first post and your most recent post, it seems like it was.

Anyway, thanks for your update. It's truly inspiring and gives me hope that things will work out for me too, even though it probably won't be in the way that I had hoped or planned for!