I know it's supposed to make me look weak. And against the rules. But for me it felt empowering to confess my fears to her and not worry about whether she approved. So I felt stronger afterwards.
So what was the point of telling her about your fear, etc? If you didn't worry about what she thought, was it b/c you just wanted her to know you are scared, or were you being selfish by wanting to dump on her?
You felt better by releasing the pent up emotions, but trust me, it did not help the MR. If you can maintain not worrying about her approval, then maybe you will reach the place of not telling her your fears. You don't need to look for a chance to share your emotions or feelings with her. Not during this time.
Not picking on ya, just giving you information for future reference.
Last edited by sandi2; 10/15/1512:18 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
