how to respond to this?

she works at the gym I go to, selling memberships (at another location)

i had to sign up for a new membership, to get childcare started for my daughter, as the employee family membership i was under with my future ex wife had childcare at 70$

she transferred from the gym I go to now because of issues with the GM there, (something I didnt support her with as well as I should have)

I signed up for the membership with the GM and he gave me a good deal for 20$ a month with childcare and guest privileges.

So she messaged me today with this: why did you sign up with GM? When you know I work off of commission and am struggling? Plus i wasnt going to take you off of my account anyways..

i dont really know what to say... i want to tell her off... why does she care who i sign up with? its not my responsibility to help her with her struggles anymore.

i did not want to drive all the way out to her work, see her face to face just to sign up for a membership. plus i had to get childcare rolling so i could workout that day.

i made it clear i was going to be seeing her as little as possible and that i did not intend to help her past what i was legally obligated to.


M: 29 W: 28
D: 8 S:1
M: 10 T: 11
BD1: 8//15 (physically separate)
Back together: 4/16
BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18)
Here we are again.