Thanks Ancaire, that was helpful. I like how you simplified it for me. Sometimes, especially since DB I overthink everything.
On my way out now, to a concert. Leaving the kids to watch each other. I used to be able to do this for 1-2 hours at a time before D and S started fighting nonstop, seems like they are good with each other now so this will be a test. I get to GAL without having to arrange for childcare or bring one of the offending siblings with me. I rented a movie for the boys so this might work. Will be a huge relief if so.
