Oh, how I wish I had done what Sandi's H did when he first had the talk. I foolishly allowed WW almost a month to "think about" things, during which time she solidified the R with current OM, effectively leading her to eventual move-out. I think if I had stood my ground at that moment and told her that if she left, that was it, the outcome may have been totally different. But no changing the past. Definitely listen closely to Sandi though - she knows what she's talking about.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.