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You really need to speak with an attorney to clarify your concerns. We can give you advice based on personal experience but the laws vary so much that you need to get an expert who is fluent with your situation and location. You're likely going to end up splitting custody 50/50 on your D4, at least initially, but what you want to avoid is letting WW have 100%, which is what she will get if she can get an abuse charge on your record. Be very careful - I would try to stay out of the house as much as possible while she's there, or at least lock yourself in a room. Your W is your enemy right now and seems willing to go to any lengths to get her way.
I agree and have been spending a lot of time away and in the master bedroom. I don't see her much but need a voice activated recorder. A CFI would be bad for WW. D4 often says "why is mommy always mad at you?" " Why is mommy always yelling at you"
"Let's not talk to mommy" "Don't let mommy in our room"

It breaks my heart.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place