Thanks guys, I just got back to him. Responded with a couple of positive comments about his news and added my work is going well, and looks like my contract will extend beyond March.

Then I said - I think we're just awaiting that business accounts info and then we can hopefully move things forward and that I'm keen to minimise legal costs too.

Then finished with saying I'll organise the gardener to visit again soon.

I'm happy with that. Somehow when he asks for something I just want to oblige and feel bad for standing my ground. But I think this was the right thing to do. He hasn't yet supplied all info needed. When he has - then we can agree a settlement.

He probably won't be pleased, but there it is. I just have a sense that he wants us to go - yeah, you have the house and I'll take this. All sorted. Let's just tell the L's now.

The other thing that I find irritating is, when he contacts me he always just puts 'stuff' on the email subject line. Like our life together was just 'stuff.'

Anyway, minor rant over. I responded and it's done. Thanks for the helpful input, and hope you guys are having a nice evening xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus