We are officially beginning down the path of divorce. I am extremely hurt by how she has treated our marriage through these last 8 weeks. I know she is acting on emotion and honestly don't know if the marriage could ever be saved. I strongly believe she is still seeing the OM, but have no ways to confirm this.
Part of me still wants to work on the marriage and save what we once had. But part of me wonders if I should fight after every lie.
Regardless of everything I still have love for her and struggle with letting go. I want her back, but now the details of the divorce will start clouding all of our conversations and I will loose opportunity to be that man she once loved.
We spend very, very little time together now and usually one of us goes out if the other one is home. We have 2 children (S6 & S5) and I have been trying to get us to do a little more as a family for the sake of the kids. For example, next week we are taking them to a corn maze and pumpkin picking.
Has anyone else been through this specific situation and had success with navigating through it? I still pray there is hope, but not sure how to handle next steps.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you
Me-29 W-29 M 5 years (2010) Kids S-6 S-5 W Ring Off: 9/28/15 Filed: 10/12/15
