Your not comfortable with phone call so that's that one decided

I'm sorry to say it but H can't be trusted If he's looking at 50k in legal bills then that's quite a carrot to wave in front of him re your settlement. I'm not advising you to take any more than your due. just get what your due and not a penny less

At the end of the day your a decent person with a good heart. The reason Ls are involved is that they have no emtional interest. For me , do what makes Sotto happy and comfortable., just make sure you don't look back regretting your choices

Take care. Rd xx