LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (2)

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Thank you Thornton,
My anxiety is pretty high right now but it's coming down.

I thoughts were
1. showing proof that she wouldn't be moving 3 kids into an apartment. D4 prefers to be me and S14/S12 prefer to be with their dad- would this help keep D4 and I in the house?

2. if she claims abuse or domestic violence to be able to protect myself by proving she is the assaulter and instigator of any hostility.