Heather, Now it's time to focus on the current chapter in your life. Life your life to the fullest. I think the house sharing is a wonderful way to go and you and your daughter are now forced to learn to interact w/others and you are doing to see a huge difference in both your attitude and your daughter's.
You have to learn to accept that you did everything humanly possible to save your marriage and you couldn't....why? Because it wasn't about you at all, but about him and he is the only one that can fix himself. He's a broken man and some don't return to earth more mature and responsible. Will he be one of them? Who knows...but I'm going to say this one more time, live your life to the fullest and do not look back...look forward to the horizon and know that each and every day will get better and better.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
