Good advice. I've often used my phone to record her and have some very abusive recordings of her being verbally abusive to both our D4 and me. I called child protective services but they said they really couldn't do anything unless there was physical abuse. I have a recording of her hitting me too.
Her XH also documents which nights the S14 and S12 stay with us vs stay with him. They have been with him so often that he stopped paying child support in January. I may be able to get a copy of the last couple months and just say I documented them. I'm not sure if showing that D4 prefers to be with me and S14/S12 prefer to be with their dad would swing things in my favor or not. I'm sure it can't hurt.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place